Expect nothing in return

Very often when things don't happen as expected, people tend to get upset over it. Seldom will they be thankful of what they had gone through throughout the entire process...
In fact, most of the time, the thing that really matter isn't the result of a certain incident, but the entire journey that had led that person to that particular result. The treasures are actually the lessons learned and the knowledge gained from the journey.

So, say I was expecting and hoping for something to happen...
Of course, when it really happens, I'll be thrill..
But if it doesn't happen as expected...I'm so gonna be upset about it. bummer

But if, say..I don't allow myself to expect a certain incident to happen right from the very beginning,
then, when it really happens, I'll still be thrill...in fact, I'll be even more glad because I wasn't even expecting it...Sort of an extra bonus.
And if it doesn't happen, I wouldn't have any lost because I wasn't expecting it to happen..Hence I will not be upset..The result of it not happening wouldn't surprise me..

So.....with all calculation done in this kiasu society...
Its obvious on which route to take....Expecting isn't always good..

In conclusion,
I shall always enjoy the process without expecting anything in return. ^^

author's note: sorry for the confusing post. Its just that, I got to "walk" the crap in my head once in a while...Don't worry, this happens only once in a blue moon.